Saturday, July 28, 2012

2012 Aicardi Syndrome Family Conference!

We just got home from a fabulous week in St. Louis to attend the Aicardi Syndrome Family Conference!  We look forward to these conferences with more anticipation than we have at Christmas time!  For several days we get to be surrounded by dear friends who live in our world of Aicardi Syndrome.  For several days, monitors and pumps beep without anyone thinking about it, and seizures happen without any strange looks. Nobody stares at us, because we are all the same there. We are surrounded by wheelchairs and friends who give complete love and acceptance.  It truly feels like going home when we are surrounded by all our dear Aicardi friends.  This conference was wonderful--every part of it--except for the fact that it had to eventually end.

We started our trip by going to the St. Louis Zoo with several of our Aicardi friends on Thursday.  We are usually aware of people staring at us in public when they see Annie, but walking through a zoo surrounded by 20 or more girls in wheelchairs just felt perfectly normal and we forgot about all the stares we must have received!

At the sea lion tank--Molly and Lexie traced their fingers along the glass and the sea lion followed their every move!


After being out in 105 degree weather, we cooled off in the 40 degree penguin building!  It was pretty neat to get right up close to them.

 
Justin crashed after being at the zoo all day, and Molly quickly grew tired of waiting for him to go swimming!


Our conference officially began on Friday.  It's a wonderful feeling to be in a conference hall surrounded by Aicardi families!



Group photo of nearly all the girls with Aicardi Syndrome in attendance--about 80!  Click on photo to make it bigger.


My dear friends Carrie and Debi with their daughters Macey and Azaria.  We joined the "Aicardi Club" all around the same time and it's been wonderful having such close friends with girls the same age as Annie.

Dr. Justin Tolman presenting a lecture at the conference on seizure drugs.  His session is always well attended and he does a fabulous job!

This 2012 conference was a bit different for me from conferences in the past.  For this conference I served on the conference planning committee, working for two years to help organize this conference.  It was such a wonderful opportunity to serve on the committee and give back a little to this organization that has changed our lives.  It was wonderful being in such close contact with other members of the committee, oftentimes on the phone with conference calls for hours, or emailing each other several times a day.  I loved this close contact with Aicardi friends and the chance I had to help contribute to the conference.  We had an amazing committee this year and I loved working with them all!  It was great to be in a position to more easily meet all the newly diagnosed families, and help lead some discussions for some breakout sessions, although when I had to fill in for the orthopedist that ended up cancelling last minute, I felt far less than adequate to lead such a session.  Fortunately there were wonderful parents in there who have more experience with orthopedic surgeries than I do that helped me with that class.

2012 Aicardi Conference Planning Committee

On Sunday we were able to walk across the street from our hotel to visit the St. Louis Gateway Arch with a large group of our Aicardi friends.  Unfortunately, the older girls, including Annie couldn't comfortably ride up in the pods to the top of the arch without their wheelchairs--it's definitely not ADA compliant.  But I took Molly and Lexie and rode up in a 5 seat pod with 2 other Aicardi friends and each of their 4 year old girls.  When we got out of the pod at the top, one man watched us filing out of the pod like clowns in a little car and asked, "How many?!"  It was a fun experience, but Molly and Lexie weren't quite sure about being crammed in the tiny pod and riding up so high!

Brooke and Nicole with their Aicardi daughters Madeline and Cece, riding in the pod.


At the top of the St. Louis Gateway Arch.  Molly wasn't thrilled with being up so high!
Lexie looking out the window at the top of the St. Louis Arch

View from the Gateway Arch

St. Louis Gateway Arch
  We had a fabulous trip to see our Aicardi family and we're so grateful for my mom who helped me drive the kids to St. Louis while Justin was away.  She helped us a lot at the conference too, giving us the opportunity to stay up extra late laughing and having fun with our friends in the hotel lobby each night.  We had a great time and already miss all our friends.  July 2014 won't come soon enough!

To see more pictures from the conference, click here to see my Facebook Album.




Annie's 10th Birthday

Annie turned 10 in May and we had a fantastic time celebrating this huge milestone!  We held an ice cream social fundraiser to support the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation which we belong to and love dearly.  We are so grateful for all the generosity of friends and family who helped contribute to the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation.  We were so touched to learn of how many people made donations in honor of Annie, from neighbors, co-workers, and extended family and friends from all across the country!  Thank you so much!  Your donations are much appreciated! 

 


At Annie's party we displayed pictures of some of our dearest friends from our Aicardi Syndrome Family.  Donations to the Foundation help support family conferences where we can unite with other families and support and lift each other up.  These conferences have become absolutely priceless to us.



We also displayed lots of pictures of Annie from the past 10 years.  They remind us just how precious life is.  Annie is an inspiration to us, that she has found so much joy, and brings so much happiness to others, despite all her challenges.  She is definitely a happy girl!





I wish I had gotten some pictures of all the kind people who attended our social, but we just got too busy celebrating! 

Also for Annie's 10th birthday, her Grandma Tolman made her a gorgeous quilt to go with her new bed that Justin and I built.  It is absolutely beautiful and we know Annie loves it!


And, so we don't neglect the other kiddos... Lexie's corneas have been healing nicely over the past 9 months, so it's getting much easier to get pictures of her now!  She's able to go outside now and enjoy the sun!


And Molly lost more teeth!  All four front teeth have fallen out and a new one on the bottom is growing in.  She's excited about it all, but unfortunately, she hasn't been able to enjoy corn on the cob this summer!


Kansas City

A brand new Mormon temple was recently built in Kansas City, so our family drove down to see it at the end of April.  Entry into Mormon temples is reserved only for church members living certain standards of righteousness, ages 12 and older.  However, after a new temple is built, before the building is dedicated, anyone is welcome to attend the temple open house and take a tour through the temple.  This was a special opportunity for us to take our children to see the inside of the temple.  It is a beautiful place and we felt the Spirit of the Lord in this holy house.



We then stopped at Liberty, Missouri, to see the Liberty Jail where the prophet Joseph Smith was imprisoned.


We also stopped at Independence to see the visitor center there.  The kids loved the pioneer play room.


We also went to the Hallmark Visitor Center and Kaleidoscope craft place, which the kids loved, but we quickly ran out of time.  We finally calmed Molly's and Lexie's tears by promising to make another trip back to Kansas City soon!