Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Our Pantry Project



We've been in our new house almost 3 years now!  And I've hated our pantry for almost 3 years now!  So over the Christmas break, we decided to finally redesign our pantry.

BEFORE:  The shelves are 24" deep, so we essentially have a "front row" and "back row" of food on each shelf, making it very difficult to reach things and keep things organized.  The blueprints for our house show L-shaped shelves which was what we thought we were getting, so we decided to make them that way now.


Jodi adding supports for an extra shelf up high.


Justin extending the supports along the side wall.

Justin using his router on top of his new table saw.  Yes, he also has one eye patched from scratching it badly with flying saw dust.  We cut our existing 24" deep shelves to 14" deep, then cut new wood for the side shelves.
Jodi painting the new shelves, feeling grateful that the weather was warm enough to be working in the garage! (Although I did have my space heater running.)
AFTER:  We now have even more shelf square footage space since we added a new 6th shelf, plus we can more easily see and reach everything in the pantry.





Yay for a handy husband!  I love our new pantry!

Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Merry Christmas from the Tolmans!

Merry Christmas, friends and family!  It’s been a busy year, but definitely calmer than last year at this time.  With Annie’s 6 week hospitalization and major health issues just over a year ago, we didn’t get the chance to write a Christmas letter.  This Christmas season we are so grateful and feel so blessed to have our family all together and have a period of relative health.

Lexie just turned 4 and started a special preschool this year for children with speech problems.  She continues to receive her private speech therapy once a week, but now she also gets to be in a preschool setting to work on group language skills.  She has made tremendous progress this year and her therapists now consider Lexie to be age-appropriate in her language and speech!  For several months, Lexie has shown extreme light sensitivity, to the point where even the bathroom light was too bright for her.  We took her to the ophthalmologist and have learned that Lexie most likely has a degenerative corneal disease.  After lengthy treatments of antibiotics and steroid ointments, she is currently only on eye drops.  We’ll return to the doctor soon to learn what kind of chronic treatment will be needed to maintain her vision.


Molly is in the 1st grade and loves school.  She loves reading and has recently started gaining interest in chapter books.  She’s read the entire Junie B. Jones series and continues to read about 4 chapter books a week!  This year was exciting for her because she lost her very first tooth!  Sadly, however, the tooth fairy was so busy at that time, that she came a day late!  Thankfully, Molly was very understanding.  Molly has the typical “oldest child” personality, and is a great helper around the house, especially with Annie and Lexie.  She’s very responsible and probably does more for herself and her sisters than a typical 6 year old should!


Annie is currently in the 4th grade and loves school.  This year she has started using a Dynavox Eye Gaze communication computer that detects where she looks on the screen.  This allows her to make her own choices, have a voice of her own, and participate more in her classroom with her peers.  We are so grateful that she is surrounded by friends and teachers in her classroom who adore her and make sure she is included!

After Annie’s hospitalization last year with complications from a c-diff infection, she was diagnosed with ulcerative colitis.  Because of that, she now requires a new special formula and medications that she’ll probably take the rest of her life.  This past year Annie did have two flare-ups requiring pretty strong steroids, but she is currently in remission now.  If she has another flare-up within the next 4 months, the doctor expects her to require a chemotherapy drug to maintain her colon health.  This past year Annie has also had 3 surgeries on her salivary glands.  The first two procedures took place in Ohio in March and June, where a doctor injected an alcohol solution to kill 4 of her 6 glands.  This past November, due to complications, we were left with no choice but to have her glands removed.  Annie was very blessed with a fast recovery and is now doing much better.  She is an absolute joy and we love her so much!  (To learn more about Annie's diagnosis and medical challenges, please visit Annie's Story page or FAQ page.)


Jodi continues to enjoy staying at home with the kids, but this year she also officially launched her own photography business.  She’s had a lot of fun doing sessions for clients and loves having a creative outlet.  Jodi also has been busy serving a two-year term on the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation planning committee for the next family conference in the summer of 2012. She's been helping to get professional speakers and organize agenda details for the fabulous weekend when over 100 Aicardi families will reunite.  It’s been a blessing to have closer associations with her Aicardi friends while serving on this committee, and to be of service to such a wonderful organization.  Jodi loves reading in her spare time and enjoys organizing and managing a monthly book group.  Jodi also continues to serve in their church as the secretary for the children’s organization and as the church choir pianist, and has enjoyed writing some original music compositions for this year's Christmas program.

Justin has had a busy year at Creighton University.  He continues to teach Pharmacokinetics where he often makes his students cry.  He’s an excellent professor that the students really do love, but he does teach one of the most difficult classes in the pharmacy program.  He’s had several other smaller teaching assignments throughout the year, and continues to serve on several committees, all while working on research too.  His first graduate student graduated this year, and he continues to work with 3 others.  We are excited for his tenure review coming up in just a couple more years.  At home, Justin loves relaxing with a book or video game and has recently taken a stronger interest in woodworking.  He also continues to serve as the president of the 12-17 year old boys group in our church.

Many thanks to all our extended family, our Aicardi Syndrome family, and other friends who continue to be such a strong support to our family.  We have very much appreciated all your thoughts and prayers, especially on behalf of Annie.  We feel peace, comfort, and joy from our knowledge of the gospel of Jesus Christ and look forward to this season to remember Him and His birth. We love you and wish each of you a very merry Christmas!

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Halloween, Surgery, Thanksgiving, a Birthday, and Getting Ready for Christmas...

Again, I'm so behind on updates!  It's been a busy couple of months.  Here's a little of what's been going on...


Halloween was pretty fun this year.  We went to Skinny Bones with the kids and we had fun.

10 acre Corn Maze at Skinny Bones, complete with scavenger hunt!

This was the first year for us to trick-or-treat in our new neighborhood.  It was surprisingly warm for a Nebraska Halloween!

I went with a group of friend on a weekend trip to Kansas City to go to a women's conference.  It was a much-needed break!

Annie had her sublingual salivary glands removed and her submandibular glands tied off in November.  This picture is from the PICU, shortly after coming out of recovery.  Notice there are no breathing aids! 

Annie sailed through surgery and recovery, surprising everyone!  She was discharged just 2 nights later, about 5 nights earlier than expected!
The swelling was very similar to her previous two salivary gland surgeries she had done earlier this year in Ohio.

On Thanksgiving, the weather was still surprisingly nice, so we took the girls on a walk and to the park.




Our Thanksgiving dinner.  Indian hats courtesy of Molly.

Molly learned to knit several months ago, but just finished her very first hat for her baby.


Annie chillin' with Dad, watching TV.  She seems so much bigger when she's sitting on the couch with us!

It snowed!  And the girls loved playing outside and sledding!...

... and Justin loved trying out our new snowblower!  Two winters without one were enough!
A couple weeks ago, Lexie turned 4!  She got a new baby doll that she named Suzie and absolutely adores!

We finally got our Christmas tree up after Lexie's birthday.



By way of update on Annie... her salivary gland removal surgery in November has proved successful so far.  Her drooling has decreased dramatically, and the ranula hasn't appeared to come back!  We also recently saw Annie's orthopedist to get her routine spine x-rays.  We're always nervous about her scoliosis curve increasing, but fortunately, there had been no change this time from the last 6 months!  Her curve is holding steady around 50-60 degrees, so we won't be considering surgery for at least another 6 months.  Once her curve gets to 75-85 degrees, it will start to affect her heart and lungs, and we'll have to decide about major surgery to place metal rods down the length of her spine.  So for now, we're just praying her curve doesn't worsen!  So far so good!


 

Friday, October 14, 2011

A Long-Overdue Update

Life is whizzing by us and I'm finally now just getting a chance to sort through pictures from the last several months.  So here's a not-so-little update about all that's been going on.


Lexie started her first year of preschool this fall.  She attends a district-run language group with other children with speech delays.  She gets private therapy before preschool each week, then attends her class where they focus on language skills as a group.  Lexie has made HUGE improvements over the last several months and is now considered to be age-appropriate, but she'll continue to receive these services, at least until her next evaluation.  Yay for Lexie!



Our garden was very successful this year!  We decided to try growing cantaloupe since we all love it so much, so Molly was pretty excited when our first (of 13) cantaloupe was ready to eat!  We didn't get to sample many of the other cantaloupes because it got too cold too quickly and most didn't make it.  We're learning that Nebraska summers are way too short for growing some things.  But the cantaloupe we ate were SO good!  Next year we'll probably try starting plants indoors in February with the hopes that we'll be able to enjoy our harvest before the cold fall temperatures hit.



Molly is doing great at school!  She's reading above grade level and enjoys reading to Annie.  I absolutely LOVE watching how Molly and Lexie interact with Annie.  Lexie insists on giving Annie a hug and kiss every morning before Annie leaves for school.  They are such sweet girls to their big sister.



We've been wanting to take the girls camping for a long time now, but with the colder weather settling in and other challenges with Annie (it's hard to use CPAP and a suction machine while camping!), we finally decided to have a camp out in our basement.  We popped popcorn, drank soda, played games in our tent, told scary stories, and put Annie to bed in her room upstairs.  The rest of us then had a very poor nights' sleep in the tent, but it was fun and definitely memorable!  Maybe sometime we'll be able to actually go camping the right way!



The weather then warmed up dramatically at the beginning of October!  The girls have had fun playing outside.  Annie enjoyed her swing so much she feel asleep in it!



We got an early start this year on our pumpkin for Halloween.  We didn't plan to carve it so soon, but that's just what happens when it gets dropped on the way home from the grocery store and cracks.  We knew it wouldn't last long, so we started the carving.  The girls really wanted to carve a cat face, so Justin was excited to get out his dremel.  It's always more fun with a cool tool!



The pumpkin is done and now rotting on our porch in the relative warmth and rain.  This picture of Lexie is significant because yes, she's outside, without sunglasses!  Lexie has suffered from EXTREME light sensitivity for over a year to where she insisted that the bathroom light be off to brush her teeth.  We finally took her to Annie's ophthalmologist and discovered that it wasn't just chronic blepheritis as we originally thought.  She did in fact have blepheritis, but the doctor also discovered that both corneas were completely covered with tons of tiny scratches.  He doesn't know what would cause it, other than a degenerative cornea problem.  She continues to be on steroid and antibiotic ointments and drops and slowly, the scratches are healing.  She still has some scratches, but about 75% fewer than before.  The scratches are causing her vision to be rather blurry, but we'll continue to treat the scratches in hopes that they will completely heal before re-evaluating her vision.  Otherwise Lexie is doing really well!  We've even made progress with her saying her prayers--it wasn't until recently we discovered that Lexie has been saying "The End" instead of "Amen" and the end of her prayers!  With her speech delays, we never noticed until now!

The above picture of Molly is significant too.  Do you see anything missing?!  She lost her first tooth!  It's been SO wiggly in there and finally I asked her if I could feel it and wiggle it, so when she opened her mouth I just ripped out the tooth!  I showed her what was in my hand and she asked, "What is that?"  She was a little confused when I told her it was her tooth!  She eagerly put it under her pillow for the tooth fairy, but as the terrible parents we are, we got busy with projects and totally forgot to have the tooth fairy come!!!  So tonight the tooth fairy will definitely make an appearance and probably leave a note of apology as well!


Annie was having such a great time watching Dad carve the pumpkin that I just couldn't help but snap some pictures of her giggling!  Too bad her hair was all messed up from her nap and her bib is on, but I still cherish every happy picture of her!  I sure love that girl!  And this next picture explains why she still needs her bibs... 




After having a second surgery in Ohio to have her ranula treated (caused by her first surgery in Ohio) her ranula has come right back.  (Her tongue is in the back of her mouth behind the fork handle, the tissue in front of that is the ranula swollen up from the floor of her mouth.)  Because the previous treatment failed, Annie is now scheduled for surgery to have both sublingual glands completely removed, and her submandibular glands tied off.  This was the surgery we were hoping to avoid by going to Ohio in the first place, but there's no getting around it now.  It is an invasive procedure with risks of nicking nerves to the tongue, and it will be very painful.  Most children are in the hospital 5-10 days after this procedure, just for pain management.

We're trying to think optimistically, and consider that about 70% of Annie's submandibulars have already been killed off by her previous procedures, so we'd like to think that Annie won't have as much swelling or pain as other kids when those glands are tied off. (When glands are tied off, the gland continues producing secretions that then get backed up in the gland, causing the gland to swell and cause intense pain until the gland eventually kills itself from all the built-up pressure.)  But this procedure should dramatically improve Annie's quality of life by preventing so much gagging, vomiting, and aspiration risks, and hopefully eliminate the need for all her bibs!

Annie also started with another colitis flare-up around Labor Day.  The GI started her on prednisone quickly which has helped tremendously, and changed her mesalamine drug from Pentasa to Apriso which should work a little better.  But if she has another flare-up within the next 6 months or so, she'll have to start chemotherapy (6MP) and continue on that for probably the rest of her life.  So we continue to pray for her health, and appreciate everyone who thinks of her and prays for her.  She continues to be such a sweet example to me of finding joy and happiness while facing trials--trials that most people don't understand and some that many people aren't even aware of.  I thrive on her smiles and love hearing her giggles!  We're eager to get her through this next surgery and hopefully have an even happier Annie!

Sunday, August 14, 2011

Over-due Updates

Wow, I can't believe how terrible I've been about posting updates lately.  This summer has just gotten away from us!  I can't believe that school starts in two days!  So here's some hopefully brief updates on Annie--she's had a lot of appointments and testing done lately, so here's the rundown.

Gastroenterology:  Annie is actually doing really well in this area.  It has now been a full year since she was diagnosed with c-diff resulting in a 4 month treatment with 6 weeks in the hospital.  The c-diff was gone as of January, but her colon has still not fully recovered from such a severe infection.  Her calprotectin (measurement of inflammation in the colon) was off the chart last year at this time--well over 2500, it was down to 1400 in January and now it's down to 780, so she's moving in the right direction.  A normal calprotectin is less than 150. We've been told that it can take up to a year (in bad c-diff cases) for the colon to heal, but considering how severely Annie was infected, we aren't surprised that the effects are still lingering.  She still has very loose stools but they are much less frequent than 6 months ago, or even 3 months ago.  (I know, that might be TMI for some of you.) So we feel like she is slowly recovering and hopefully next year at this time she will have made a complete recovery.  In the meantime, she is still on a hefty dose of colitis medication as well as a special formula.

CDC Clinic:
As part of Annie's routine annual care, we see several of her specialists at her Children's Developmental Clinic appointment each year.  It makes for a very long day, but it's nice to eliminate lots of individual trips to the hospital for all these appointments.  We only wish ALL her doctors participated in the CDC clinic! So here's who we saw there:

Orthopedics:  Annie met with the orthopedist and the plan is to still delay spine surgery until her scoliosis curve gets even worse, hoping she can get a little older before it is absolutely necessary.  They say the effects on her heart and lungs are minimal now, so hopefully we can continue to put that surgery off for a year or two.

Pulmonology:  Annie is doing really well in this category.  She continues to shock us by going 9 years now without a case of aspiration pneumonia!  We reviewed all her CPAP settings and how she's tolerating it.  We think the CPAP definitely helps Annie be less sleepy during the day.  She still takes her power naps, but much less than before she started CPAP almost 2 years ago.  She'll repeat a sleep study next January as a routine test.

Genetics: It's always interesting to meet with the geneticist.  The first time we met with her, she brought in a printed-off paper from the internet that detailed genetic information about Aicardi Syndrome.  Most people probably would have found it helpful, however, all the information she had printed off was directly from the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation website that I, myself, had helped to develop when we updated the foundation's website a few years ago!  At this latest visit a similar thing happened... the geneticist brought in two journal articles that have recently been published on Aicardi Syndrome.  Little did she know that we had heard those results first hand from the researcher herself when she attended our Aicardi Syndrome Family Conference last year.  One publication summarized findings in a group of AS children--again, little did the geneticist know that Annie was one of those children that was studied for that line of research!  It all just makes us chuckle, but it does make us realize how blessed we are to be a part of the Aicardi Syndrome Foundation and have it as such a great resource and support in our lives.  That particular journal article explored facial and skin deformities in AS children.  Based on the article, the geneticist recommended that Annie see a dermatologist regularly, however, I know from learning the research myself that the skin deformities found were all present at birth and did not develop later as a result of AS.  So really, Annie is at no higher risk of developing skin problems than I am.  She might actually be less of a risk since she's not out in the sun as much as the rest of us.  We also don't feel like we're ready to add another specialist to her already long list of doctors unless it is absolutely necessary.  We're already anticipating the need for a pediatric GYN or endocronologist soon.

Metabolics:  Annie usually has a bone density scan each year--she is at risk of osteoporosis since she does no weight bearing--even in her stander anymore.  However, this year they said her scans looked so good last year that they didn't feel like they needed to repeat the scan this year!  However, they did do blood work and discovered that Annie's vitamin D levels have dropped again, so they are doubling her vitamin D dose.

Dietician: Annie's weight is still stable at about 53 lbs.  She's about 54 inches tall now too.  Since she's just on formula through her g-tube, she doesn't gain any weight unless we start increasing her calories, however, the dietician felt like she's still doing ok where she is.  She usually hovers around the 5th percentile on the BMI charts.  We all agree that to feed her more would only increase her risk for pressure sores and would make it just that much more difficult for us to take care of her.  So there's no change to her diet for now.  They are adding a calcium supplement however, since her formula isn't providing the recommended amount for her age anymore.  They also suggested adding phosphorus, potassium, and sodium according to the daily values that she's receiving from her formula, but until we get blood work to actually show those levels, they aren't ones we want to be messing with.  Blood work last fall showed all those levels are fine, and they are managed by the body anyway, so we feel like fewer meds to give her will be better if they aren't needed.

Physical Therapy: The PT at CDC met with us to review Annie's needs.  She thinks Annie should still be standing every day, but there have been issues with her dislocating kneecap and the orthopedist agrees that it's fine to stop standing because of her kneecap.  Ideally non-ambulatory children should be using standers until about age 12, but in this case, especially with her bone density scans looking so good, they've agreed she can stop standing!  Yay! Annie will now double her closet size without her stander in there!

Occupational Therapy:  The OT at CDC reviewed what Annie is doing in OT at school.  We also talked about modifications to Annie's bath chair since she just isn't sitting very comfortably in it since her scoliosis has worsened.  So we'll hear back later from the medical supplier if he thinks there's more options for making Annie more comfortable in the shower.  The OT always talks to us about lifting Annie and getting lift equipment in our home, but we told them how badly we disliked the hoyer lift, and how comfortable we still each are doing single-person lifts.

Social Worker: We always meet with the CDC social worker too, but we are blessed to already have all the resources we need to take care of Annie.  Nebraska really has been a great place to raise a special needs daughter.  We are so fortunate to have so many programs that get her the help she needs as well as our main social worker (outside CDC) who works so hard for us!

Developmental Pediatrian: The developmental pediatrician was out this time, but we met with his nurse practitioner.  Our only concern in this area was regarding Annie's ranula that has come back even after her second surgery in Ohio.  The Ohio doctor had said if it comes back again the last option would be to completely remove both sublingual glands.  We have no idea who, if anyone, has experience with this procedure in Omaha, so we discussed it with this nurse practitioner.  She wasn't familiar with anyone in Omaha who does the surgery, but she did give us a name of supposedly the best pediatric ENT at the children's hospital.  But first we need to hear back from the doctor in Ohio concerning the matter.

Whew! So that was all one day at the CDC appointment.

Neurology: The very next day after the CDC appointment, we met with our neurologist.  It was just a routine visit that was rather uneventful, but we did discuss more seizure control options for when Annie is menstruating.  Just like most AS girls, the seizures can be really bad during that time of the month and we're learning Annie is no different.  While on vacation in Utah she had seizures for about 12 hours just before her cycle started and the seizures didn't even respond to our emergency meds.  She got a full dose of Diastat that day in addition to 2 hefty overdoses of Ativan!  The neurologist agreed that we did the right thing, but hopefully this pattern won't continue with each cycle.

Salivary Gland Sonogram: The next week we took Annie in for a sonogram of her salivary glands to help give the doctor in Ohio a better picture about what might be going on--it's also just part of the routine follow-up after having her ranula surgery in June.  The technician struggled to do the sonogram and admitted that they don't really get requests for this kind of imaging.  He left the room several times to speak with the radiologist about the test.  So we'll wait for the Ohio doctor to get those scans and advise us on how to proceed.  If we can't find anyone in Omaha that has experience with gland removal, we will definitely consider taking a third trip to Ohio.  It is a risky enough procedure with facial nerves and the risk of losing her smile or causing paralysis of the tongue, that we want to make sure we have a surgeon who has a lot of experience with this rather rare procedure.

Urology: Annie also had her annual routine urology testing the same day.  I was rather surprised to hear the urologist tell me that Annie has a mass in one of her kidneys, but that it was there in November as well--she had a CT scan of her kidneys last fall while hospitalized because they were worried about her kidney function after being so dehydrated for so long.  Apparently they found a mass, but didn't tell us about it, or else they DID tell us about it, but we were too concerned about her just surviving her terrible infection that we weren't concerned about a little mass.  Anyway, the urologist said it's definitely not a kidney stone but is made up of fat and blood vessels.  He honestly has no idea what it is, but guesses it's a benign tumor.  He didn't seem concerned because it hadn't really grown since November--it's about the size of a dime--but he wants to continue to monitor it with sonograms every 6 months to make sure it's not growing.  If so, he'll either have to remove it surgically or treat it with radiation.  *Sigh*

Ophthalmology: Annie continues to see her ophthalmologist every 3 months due to potential vision loss from her anti-convulsant medication.  Thankfully, the appointments are usually pretty quick and uneventful.  Annie's peripheral vision appears to be holding steady and her retinal lacunae for the most part remain unchanged.  Thankfully her retinal lacunae are all around the optic nerve, so only her peripheral vision is effected by the lacunae--making her peripheral vision appear as Swiss cheese.  Which is really good considering that the anti-convulsant causes peripheral vision loss.  She's been on it since she was 7 months old and we have been SO blessed to not have to play the seizure med game since then, although she still has seizures about 2-3 times a week--relatively, that is GREAT control!

Ok, I think that completes the updates on Annie.  Hopefully I can stay more up-to-date now with school starting.  If you made it this far, congratulations! You know more than most about all the unseen struggles of a special needs family!  And I apologize for the long post!  Good thing I didn't go into ALL the details of each appointment, but I didn't expect the condensed version to be quite this long either!



Tuesday, July 12, 2011

This is Nebraska

We took a family outing up to the pedestrian bridge over the Missouri River in downtown Omaha a few weeks ago to see the flooding first hand.  From the news stories, I doubted the bridge would even be open, but it was, although the sidewalks along the banks of the river were all closed and heavily flooded in certain places.  The bridge typically spans half water, half land, but with the flooding, the bridge is ALL over water now.





And as if we didn't have enough water, a huge storm rolled through one night as we were getting packed for our trip.  These thick, black clouds started billowing in and in a matter of a few minutes, the sky was black and the still air had 70 mph winds.  As we were packing, we noticed a wailing sound.  Justin and I looked at each other and realized we were hearing the tornado sirens, which I've never heard go off here unless it was just a drill.  We quickly turned on the news and saw that our small city was under a tornado warning.  With the Joplin disaster on our minds, we pulled all our kids out of bed, carried Annie downstairs and decided to wait out the storm there.  Molly was absolutely terrified, but we said a prayer and everything was ok.  It's amazing to see storms like this roll in so quickly and unexpectedly.  They definitely make life exciting!



All this rain, however, has definitely helped our garden this year.  We were surprised last year at how easily things grew here in Nebraska, so Justin decided to start an even larger garden this year!  Twice as large to be exact--it's 6' x 24'.  From left to right we have tomatoes, peas, cucumbers, beans, carrots, peppers, cilantro, onions, and cantaloupe (that haven't sprouted yet in this picture).  It's been 3 weeks since this picture was taken, and since then, every plant has about tripled in size!  Justin is also growing oregano and rosemary in pots on our deck.  His plan is to make a lot of salsa!  Our cantaloupe have sprouted now and are growing quickly too.

Friday, July 8, 2011

Tolman Reunion in Draper

All 19 of us

At the 4th of July Parade


Molly playing a Minute-to-Win-It game



Justin loves grilling!


Watching fireworks





Molly washing clothes at Pioneer Heritage State Park